18 Ugly Truths About Modern Dating That You Have To Deal With

Interesting piece…Some certain truths!

Thought Catalog

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1. The person who cares less has all the power. Nobody wants to be the one who’s more interested.

2. Because we want to show how cavalier and blasé we can be to the other person, little psychological games like ‘Intentionally Take Hours Or Days To Text Back’ will happen. They aren’t fun.

3. A person being carefree because they have zero interest in you looks exactly like a person being carefree because they think you’re amazing & are making a conscious effort to play it cool. Good luck deciphering between the two.

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4. Making phone calls is a dying art. Chances are, most of your relationship’s communication will happen via text, which is the most detached, impersonal form of interaction. Get familiar with those emoticon options.

5. Set plans are dead. People have options and up-to-the-minute updates on…

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10 things every female should know.


1. You are a prayer in the most holy mouth. The space between clasped hands. A landscape so picturesque at any angle, you are a reminder that magic exists.

2. Oh, they will stop and stare, you most divine creature with unapologetic skin and fearless features. LEARN to take a compliment. Settle into being the center of things.

3. When you fall in love, let it be with a person who asks nothing of you. Your existence should be enough. If they do not kiss you urgently and often, find someone who understands that lips in the presence of love should ignite passion.

4. Keep a few great friends. When they tell you harsh truths, learn to listen for the love. Growth is necessary and annoying at times but look and you will always find the silver lining.

5. Buy the perfect shade of red lipstick. It, like the perfect…

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The processing process

This is my confession. I don’t know how to talk about my feelings. Whether they are good or bad. I don’t know how to begin or what to say. How do I even start.
Most things to me are either black or white. I don’t see well through the gray areas. Yet life is mostly made up of gray areas. When it comes to certain things, I don’t know how to be in between. I’m on either side of the scale.. I show it or I don’t.

Just because I’m not super expressive, doesn’t mean I unable to love. I am. I love with every fibre of my being. I don’t know how to love in between. When I get hurt, I don’t talk about it. I take it in analyse it and talk about it when it’s done. That’s if I do.

The process of processing my feelings is internal (this is where the gray areas lie) The love I feel is internal. The pain I feel is internal. The joy I feel is internal. This is what works me. It’s what I know. I’m a realist. Often at times my realistic side clashes with optimism and pessimism. Realism is my companion when I process. It helps me to make sense.

It’s never an easy thing. Sometimes it brings to light some ugly things. Sometimes it draws me away from the world because there’s peace in solitude. I have found that sometimes you need to step away from the issue to understand the issue. I am learning how to separate the person from the situation.

What am I trying to say here… we all have emotions. Take time to think through the emotions. Live in each as it comes because you probably won’t feel the same tomorrow. The only thing that should remain constant is love. Because it’s powerful like that.